4 ways to STOP arguing with your spouse

3. Refuse to speak with a negative, nagging or sarcastic tone.

Without even realizing it, you might be speaking with a harsh or negative tone. The tone of your words will shape the tone of your marriage. Be intentional about speaking with kindness and compassion even when your spouse is responding with negativity. You can either be a thermostat or a thermometer. A thermometer adjusts to the climate but a thermostat CHANGES the climate. Your positive tone can start to change the climate in your communicate and improve your marriage.

#4 might be the single most important way to improve a marriage…