40 Things to do Before You’re 40

34. Give away something very valuable. There was a quote posted on a plaque at my college that says, “That which a man gives away often becomes his greatest possession.” I understood what the quote meant in college, but I didn’t fully believe it was true. The older I get, the more I see the truth and wisdom in those words. When we give away our forgotten junk to Goodwill, we don’t fully appreciate the joys of giving. When you give something that matters to you; something of great value, it becomes an even greater part of you. When the Bible says, “It’s more blessed to give than to receive,” the Bible is telling the truth!

35. Live in the country. I grew up in the country and I didn’t appreciate it until after I had grown up and moved away. The solitude and simple pace of life of rural living can give you peace of mind, a new appreciation for all God’s creation and some breathtaking sunsets. Everyone should live in the country at least once. I’ve done it once and hope to do it again.

36. Live in a city. The energy of a city is electrifying. I’ve spent a lot of time in cities, but this is one item on the list I’ve not yet done. I’m in a season of life where it’s difficult because of our young children, but I would have loved the experience of living in a major city before I had kids. I love the energy, culture and diversity an urban setting provides. It’s probably still something I’ll do later in life.

37. Live in the suburbs. This is my life right now. There’s a special connection that happens when you’re part of a neighborhood. It’s Americana at it’s finest with all the quirks, blessings and unexpected friendships neighbors can provide. For bonus points, go to at least one neighborhood association meeting in your life. You can base entire sitcoms on those meetings!

38. Have a dog. I don’t think a person has fully lived until they’ve owned a dog. There is such a special bond between humans and “man’s best friend.” If your parents didn’t let you have one as a kid, then get one for yourself as a grownup. I currently don’t have a dog, because our life and travel schedule is so crazy, but I’m thankful for the time I’ve had with my pets in the past and I’m sure I’ll have more in the future.