1. He always sees himself as a VICTIM when things don’t go his way.
We all face adversity. You need a man who sees himself as an overcomer. When he gets knocked down, he brushes himself off and gets back up. He doesn’t get bitter. He doesn’t make excuses. He keeps going and the struggles make him even stronger. If your man always whines when things don’t go his way, he’s not headed anywhere in life you want to go.