2015-08-30T20:57:25-05:00

I’ve got a confession to make. I’m addicted to being busy. Like most “busy-holics” I’ve been guilty of keep a frenetic and unsustainable pace in life at the expense of my health and my happiness (and often at the expense of my loved ones as well). Still, I often wear busyness like a badge of honor even while it creates stress, sleepless nights and strained relationships. This is an area of my life where I’ve been working to improve, and... Read more

2015-08-25T20:40:40-05:00

The Bible has changed my life and my marriage. Seriously. Depending on where you are on your faith journey, you may look at the Bible (as I do) as a love letter from God filled with inspiration and instruction for life OR perhaps you just see it as an antiquated, outdated relic. Regardless of your current faith (or lack of faith), I’d encourage you to read the ten verses below, because they’ve had a tremendous impact on my life and... Read more

2015-08-23T20:25:26-05:00

One of the most common phrases my wife Ashley and I hear when talking with married couples who are facing struggles, boredom, the aftermath of infidelity or any other type of challenge in marriage is something like, “I just don’t feel the same anymore. I’ve fallen out of love with him/her. I’m not sure I want to stay married.” Maybe you’ve had thoughts like this and maybe you’ve even said them out loud. Feelings are fickle, so chances are, you’ve had moments when... Read more

2015-08-20T15:13:19-05:00

More than 32 million names were released by hackers when the database of the “Ashley Madison” website was released. The site exists to help married people enter into discreet sexual affairs, but after the hack, the results are anything but discreet (our secrets ALWAYS come out eventually). Josh Duggar was one of the 32 million cheaters living a double life in their marriages, and he just released a Statement through FOX News talking about the shame he has brought on his family.... Read more

2015-08-18T12:52:08-05:00

CNN.com just reported a fascinating research study on the science of happy marriages and one finding from that study stood out to me as something deeply profound. According to this recently published research, one of the most important factors in the longterm health of a marriage is found in how your spouse responds when you share good news. The research suggests that a spouse’s response to good news is one of the most important factors to the health and happiness of a marriage. This is... Read more

2015-08-17T10:37:54-05:00

After observing the habits of healthy couples from all over the world, I’m convinced that the healthiest couples share some important, daily habits. Below are five habits of happy, healthy couples. This isn’t a comprehensive list, but these five are a really good start. If you’ll implement these in your own marriage, I believe you’ll see some instant improvements! (more…) Read more

2022-11-01T13:43:56-05:00

I’ve written a lot about the importance of sex in marriage and my wife and I even helped to develop the “Best Sex Life Now” course for married couples, because we believe when your sex life with your spouse improves, your marriage can simultaneously improve too. It takes a lot more than sex to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it! (more…) Read more

2015-12-09T15:58:52-05:00

  Before you read the article, download our brand new Marriage App for iPhones and iPads by clicking here and you’ll get immediate access to marriage ebooks, relationship-building content plus some communication tools to help you and your spouse stay connected. I’m going to make a confession to you. It’s a confession many men will try to deny, but it’s the truth. Here it is…we men get our feelings hurt a lot more than we admit. Wow. I already feel a sense... Read more

2017-11-08T10:44:54-05:00

I'm going to make a confession to you. It's a confession many men will try to deny, but it's the truth. Here it is...we men get our feelings hurt a lot more than we admit. Wow. I already feel a... Read more

2015-08-11T08:46:51-05:00

If you are being abused or witnessing abuse in your home, please call the free national hotline at 1-800-799-7233. All calls are confidential.  (more…) Read more


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