Seven Tips To Stop Marginalizing or Dehumanizing People

Seven Tips To Stop Marginalizing or Dehumanizing People April 17, 2019
Social workers generally use the term marginalization to refer to the discriminatory treatment of an individual or minority group of people as a lesser status than the main or majority group. These folks are to be feared or treated with suspicion as an “other”. Dehumanization is usually the marginalization of people to an extreme degree. To dehumanize is to view folks not as a different kind of human, but a lesser kind of human, a subhuman or nonhuman. The “dominant” group relegates the minority’s voice to little or none in important matters, and their stories/perspectives are not valued or equally valued. For the sake of brevity in this blog, I will use the two terms interchangeably to mean treating fellow humans with prejudice, believing they have inferior thinking and feeling ability.

In America, who claims marginalization?

1. African Americans: Many in this group are generally quick to say that native Americans or indigenous people groups “have it worse” than them.*

 2. Foreigners:  Historically, all immigrants from various countries in Europe, Asia, and other continents feel the burn of discrimination and prejudice against them despite being legal immigrants and eligible for citizenship. In the last few decades, this term refers to nonEuropean immigrants, but especially the ones without legal authorization to immigrate to the US.

 3. People of Color: Any nonwhite, nonEuropean Americans. This includes Asian Americans, Latinx Americans, and Black Americans. Americans of color who are younger, or who are more removed from immigrant generation, tend to see themselves as part of this “marginalized” group compared to their older counterparts.

4. Women: Traditionally, American society can be described as patriarchal like the rest of the world of old. With the changing of times came the change of perspectives and broadening of women’s rights to vote, own property, divorce, subsume traditional male jobs, even become leaders of companies and bureaucracies.  In the #metoo era, women have called for better protection in the workplace against sexual harassment and abuse of power by male authority figures.**

5. The Poor: Mostly this term is used to refer to individuals and families found in intergenerational poverty.

 6. Others: The disabled (mentally, physically, or developmentally), religious minorities (historically Catholics were the minority in America, then Jews, now Muslims), and more recently folks who identify as lgbtq.

But everything seems to change with time and the pendulum continues to swing both ways.

Swinging Pendulum

Today, even those who are classified by social justice activists as belonging to the class of “oppressors” now cry bigotry and injustice! They, too, feel marginalized and dehumanized. This newest socio-political phenomenon may be due to the fact that in the last few decades, identity politics, Marxism/critical race theory, and intersectionality frameworks have all risen as legitimate ways of seeing culture and reality in America. Perhaps originating in higher academia, and propelled by likeminded influencers in the liberal mainstream media, these new ways of viewing the self, the country, and the world have affected corporate world policies, government rules and regulations, and church unity. Steadily, Americans are put on a hierarchy of oppression/levels of victimization chart. People that score lower on these intersectionality charts (see one example hereregardless of their behavior or character traits find themselves feeling increasingly left out, misunderstood, demonized, forgotten or rejected. And, not surprisingly, they are fighting back.

Having a foot in each door, I hear grievances from different groups of people. I used to be a refugee of war, an immigrant to America at age six, raised in welfare by nonEnglish speaking, inadequately educated Chinese Vietnamese parents. So, by today’s social work standards, I belonged to the vulnerable, “marginalized” people groups.  Except that I’ve been blessed by those who’ve been classified by society as the oppressors. Somehow, in America, in less than two decades, I flipped groups. From being a foreigner, poor, a woman of color, Buddhist/agnostic, I found myself being welcomed into the lifestyle of the middle class (some who are wealthy), Christian, multiethnic but majority white, “privileged” Americans.

What helped?

United States foreign policy in the late 1970s and 1980s, allowing the immigration of hundreds of thousands of South Vietnamese refugees who escaped persecution and poverty (after a bloody communist takeover in 1975) helped. Getting sponsored at camp by predominantly white Lutheran Church in 1979 to immigrate to America helped. Helping my parents to study for the US citizenship exam helped. Being given academic scholarships for a private high school and private college education helped.

Heeding Asian cultural advice to lay low, below the radar, not rocking the boat or protesting authority (aka “the hands that feed you”) helped. Becoming a born again Christian during my sophomore year by accepting the gift of Jesus Christ helped. Graduating from a prestigious university and obtaining a graduate degree a few years later helped. Also, being married to a white Christian man (even if he was of humble means) helped.***

Finally, social work with people from various demographic backgrounds helped me to see common humanity underlying all the fears, grievances, and superficial divisions between people. As a social worker for the last twenty years and a psychotherapist in private practice for the last ten years, I have worked with numerous individuals who belong to diverse group affiliations.  I have learned from the Muslim parents trying to raise their children well, from the grieving Buddhist families trying to heal from shame, from the challenges of adoption within the same skin color and across cultural and ethnic lines. I have been blessed by the strength of my indigent (Medicaid) clients and witnessed sacred vulnerability in the ones who were living more affluently.
I’ve seen the humanity in folks who identify as same-sex attracted and also in the ones who struggle with gender identity/dysphoria. Kids as young as three and as old as seniors have blessed me with their presence. The children of undocumented immigrants have reminded me what it was like to be an “other” and to carry mature burdens at such a young age. The drug dealing dads and prostitute moms cried in my office as they received the same empathy and encouragement that I’ve gotten in life. In short, this professional work has not only helped me to stay down to Earth but also to see God. 

7 Tips To Stop the Cycle of Marginalizing and Dehumanizing

Perhaps the best way to avoid marginalizing people is to make that genuine connection, one person at a time. Here are seven tips I’ve gathered from my personal and professional life to stop the cycle of marginalizing people:
  1. Respect biblical truth: See the person as a fellow image bearer of God (not as subhuman or negative group stereotypes)
  2. Listen to her (different from debating or agreeing, may include silent presence)
  3. Show interest in his perspective/concerns (instead of dismissing his behaviors as “toxic masculinity” or “snowflake”)
  4. Put yourself in her shoes (put on empathy, not conceit; refrain from judging or talking at her)
  5. Learn from him (show humility instead of assuming you already know based on your reading or educational attainment): Philippians 2:3-4
  6. Show that you care (connecting on the human to human level, making eye contact)
  7. Let the above transform your attitude and behaviors (stripping yourselves of superficial labels, then putting love/empathy into action and breaking bread with your neighbor)

When we do for the least of these, we see and experience God.

After all,
Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.
Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. (Matthew 5:3-10)
 
I’ve been poor in spirit and poor socio-economically. Now I’m more financially secure and especially feel rich in spirit. I’ve felt weak and disconnected, lost and unable to identify who “my people” were. Now I am strong through the Holy Spirit that dwells inside me, connected to the large body of Christ in this great country, and the diverse family of God around the world. I was blind and overwhelmed by spiritual warfare, now I see more openly and am victorious through Jesus’ love for me.

 

Today, I see many on the Christian right struggle with feeling vulnerable, oppressed, marginalized, and dehumanized. I hear them cling to Christ’s comforting words, “Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account.” (Matthew 5: 11) To the utter disbelief of their opponents, they are comforted by “Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” (Matthew 16:24-25). And they march on in faith prodded by Jesus’ commandments, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” (Luke 21:36).

When Christian left and Christian right utilize these seven guidelines, we will notice that though we might suffer and grieve temporarily, there is more understanding and connection. When we refuse to see the enemy in any individual or people groups, we’ll be anxious about nothing. We know the Truth. The Truth has set us free. The Truth is coming again.
There is great hope! Our God is as mysterious as He is great. He is as just as He is merciful and loving. Finally, He is sovereign and victorious!

* A small but growing percentage–Black conservatives and also recent immigrants from Africa– do not self identify with this victim mentality but rather with the values of conservatism and the idea of American privilege and exceptionalism.

** Ironically, traditional feminists now find themselves fighting to protect women and women’s livelihood against the new trend of degendering sports, public bathrooms, and the push to normalize objectification of women and children through legitimizing “sex work”.

*** More about our “marriage made in heaven but you must live it out on Earth” love story here.

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  • tovlogos

    Thank you, Kim — this essay was definitely written by a true believer in Jesus who has a conscious indwelling of the Spirit of God.
    Of course, finite humans will have a difficult time harnessing the available gifts of the Spirit, but they are available if we, yes, “Respect biblical truth…”
    or, “do what we read in Scripture”, period. If we do that all the things you accurately portrayed are a matter of time to the child on the Narrow Path.
    “See the person as a fellow image bearer of God (not as subhuman or negative group stereotypes)”. To see this cannot be done ideally apart from
    the active indwelling Spirit of God, obviously. So, the process of conformity to His image is key — but that takes some effort, or, some just yield
    to the Word of God and let it happen…when conformity to His image is done for us by His guidance — John 16:7-15. In the meantime we pray
    without ceasing, and do our part, not being ashamed of the name of the Son of God.

  • Thank you for getting it!

  • tovlogos

    Thank you, God bless you, sister.