The disciples of John approached Jesus and said,

“Why do we and the Pharisees fast much,
but your disciples do not fast?”
Jesus answered them, “Can the wedding guests mourn
as long as the bridegroom is with them?
The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them,
and then they will fast.”
–Matthew 9:14-5, today’s reading

I like this because it works against the temptation to view Lent as a self-improvement project. I don’t like self-improvement and I’m not good at it! This passage is a reminder to focus outward, on deepening our love for Christ as we long and prepare for Him, rather than inward on our own various foibles or even major besetting sins.