Lie #1: You need to Date
Have you ever heard the following : How will you be able to handle a relationship if you’ve never been in one? You need to learn how to talk to people of the opposite sex. You’re awkward. As such, dating will help you be prim and proper for when you meet the one. However, this seemingly harmless advice can turn harmful. Soon enough, you will need to practice kissing, intimacy and other things in order to be prepared for your significant other. Incidentally, when you meet the person God has for you, you might be broken and dealing with soul ties.
Therefore, it’s best to trust God’s timing and not force situations to happen. Feeling that you need practice is not indicative of trusting God. God will use experiences, tests and even the mundane parts of your life in order to prepare you for your future spouse (read the book of Ruth). Trust that God is working all things for your good.