Editor’s note: According to Larry The Great it’s not enough to be a submissive wife like Lori Alexander or Michelle Duggar and give your husband sex each and every time he wants it. You have to seduce him too. Here’s Larry’s breakdown of six types of wives. Does the ‘Nypho’ wife really exist outside of pornography?
The Frigid Wife
This Frigid wife views sex as a dirty activity that is a necessary evil for conceiving children. She has no desire to be touched in a sexual way or to touch her husband in a sexual way. If her husband presses her for sexual relations outside the context of trying to conceive a child she may reluctantly and grudgingly agree to do this “dirty” act with him. But she will have a nasty look on her face and be lifeless as he has sex with her.
Seems like the Frigid Wife is the only one that Larry-boy has encountered and likely be the only time he ever does.
The Submissive Wife
The Submissive wife has regular sexual relations with her husband whenever he desires it because she believes God tells her to and she believes this will help keep him from sexual temptation. But she views sex from the female perspective as more of a “receptive” position. She does not take any proactive steps to sexually arouse her husband or seduce her husband. She may actually enjoy sex sometimes with her husband but never enough to want to initiate it with him – she always waits for him to initiate sex.
The type most common in Quiverfull. Never says no to sex but even that’s not enough for Larry.
The Romantic Wife
The Romantic wife loves sex but only views sex from a relational, romantic and feelings oriented position. She would reject the view of the Frigid wife that sex is only for procreation and she would also reject the view of the Submissive wife that a woman should just be in a submissive position to have sex with her husband whenever he desires it.
The Romantic wife believes her husband must earn each sexual encounter with her by romancing her. If for any reason, she does not feel like having sex then sex will not occur. Like the Submissive wife though, she rarely if ever initiates sex with her husband because she believes sex in a marriage should always center on a husband romancing his wife.
Is asking your husband to participate in the emotional side of marriage really such a strain and demand?
The Nympho Wife
The Nympho wife is a woman that has a sexual nature that is more similar to that of a man than a woman in that her sex drive is more physically oriented than relationally oriented. This type of woman could easily be having sex with multiple men in the same period in her unending quest for sexual pleasure.
The Nympho wife’s primary goal in sex is not procreation nor is it to please her husband but rather to meet her own sexual desires. She really has no desire to take the time or energy to seduce her husband or to truly concentrate on giving her body to him for his pleasure. She just wants the clothes off and to have him pleasure her and fulfill her sexual desires – him getting his sexual needs met is of little to no concern to her.
Ha! Larry reads too many porn mags apparently.
The Evil Seductress Wife
The Evil Seductress wife uses her body and her sexual charms to get what she wants. She uses sex to lure her husband into marrying her and then afterwards uses her sexual charms to control him and manipulate him for the remainder of their marriage. The Evil Seductress wife sees sex primarily as a tool for power and only secondarily as an activity for procreation or pleasure. Her goals in seduction may be just to have control of the man and his money or it may also include her desire for him to be a sperm donor to give her children.
Another type I’m not sure really exists or is possibly few and far between.
The Good Seductress Wife
The Good Seductress wife is one who views sex primarily through the lenses of pleasing her husband sexually, not just submitting herself to her husband sexually. She goes much further than the Submissive wife in that she takes an active role in trying to please her husband sexually rather than just taking a passive role and waiting for him to initiate sexual relations.The Good Seductress wife makes herself a student of her husband’s sexual preferences. She learns what turns her husband on and what turns her husband off sexually. She not only learns all these things about her husband – but she acts on this knowledge. The Good Seductress wife realizes that she cannot fully please her husband sexually unless she finds a way to truly enjoy sex herself so she becomes a student of her own body as well helping herself to work in concert sexually with her husband to bring him the maximum sexual pleasure that she can.
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