Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – What Should I Do With This Guy?

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – What Should I Do With This Guy? September 26, 2017

AnsweringYoung lady, confused in love, confused about matters of the heart and wanting clarity on who her Mr. Right might be.

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem,many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

What should I do with this guy?

Hi, well I’m from Latin America so I don’t have a very good english.. I have been talking with a guy lately, he is a christian but he is from another city of my country, so we only talk by facebook, but I have seen him before, my friends of my church said that he is a good guy, and I have noticed that he is interested in me and also that he is really interested in God,  I will see him in a conference in a week, I’m not in love with him, but maybe I have to give him a chance.. but I also have a problem, some months ago I was praying with a guy from my church to marry but his mother didn’t want us to marry (we don’t know the reason, nobody know, she just don’t want that his little boy marry) well she did his life impossible, so he decided to end our waiting even when he was still in love with me, because nothing get better, but I still love him, the wife of my youth leader think that maybe it wasn’t just our time, but I don’t know if I have just to forget that and give a chance to meet this other guy, or be still waiting for him.. I have pray for all this but I can’t forget him and I can’t make a decision either so I have been asking for some pieces of advice

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