The day after Christmas and Larry Solomon of Biblical Gender Roles is still thinking yet again about his penis. In this piece Larry thinks women who experience pain during sex must just suck it up and endure it. Larry, how about the man being considerate, talking to the wife about an alternative to nothing but pain, or, heaven forfend, learn to be a better lover that does not inflict pain? It’s not true that wives must endure painful sex.

The sad thing about all of this is that it comes from Larry’s readers, these questions about painful sex. I cannot even imagine enduring sex that sounds like torment without at least attempting to find a way for both partners to be happy. It would be hell. I feel for these people, but again, like every other screwy thing is Evangelical Quiverfull it would be a good idea to talk, honestly without blaming. Why is that so impossible for these people?

Larry has the ladies discussing in comments the issues of painful sex, in response to a man he says is a troll. I’m pretty sure at least one of those women is a lady I know too that is not Larry’s brand of woman.

Here Larry claims that there are 7 Biblical Principles of Sex and that a woman’s pleasure does not primarily figure in because sex is for men’s enjoyment, not women’s. Oh Larry! No wonder you’re having issues getting laid.

Now I will give Larry a small amount of credit. He does go on to say that the wife might need surgery or medicine, to consult a doctor, which is so so rare in fundytown. He also states the obvious without getting that some men need instruction, that a man might ‘change his methods’ to reduce pain.

Sounds to me like a man becoming educated on the functionality of sex and a woman’s body might be equally important. Most of these guys are in the dark on sex from this subculture. A little education and talking hurts no one. Talk to your wife because sex is a lot more fun when the pleasure is mutual.

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