Focusing on Independence

I came by my independent streak honestly. I grew up in Wisconsin.

I was brought up in a time and place that valued being independent. Independent women and men stood on their own two feet, and nobody could tell them what to do or think. We each took the time to make up our own mind, and were not reluctant to give someone else a piece of it. We listened, spoke plainly, and stood up for what we decided was right. We were fiercely independent.

I learned a great deal about independence during long winters.

We understood that independence meant that we could cope with things on our own. It was difficult to ask for help and, when we did, it was from the people next door.

Being independent also meant being ready to help other people. I learned to offer help before someone asked for it.

Being independent was a lot like being one of the monks I know.

Though some things have changed, the value of independence has shaped my life. Now we are more connected to each other, and to people around the world, than I could have imagined growing up in the Midwest. Sometimes it seems that people are more focused on getting their fair share of benefits than on being independent.

Now we have independent films and independent rock music.

I remember the lessons of those long winters, even here in a place of endless summer.

I remain fiercely independent. Known in California as a “decline-to-state” voter, I am a registered nonpartisan.

Independence carries joy and responsibility. It includes the satisfaction of being dependable and reliable. Honest independence is not about controlling events, but about being able to continue.

How will you exercise your independence today?

What is the best way for you to remember, and focus on, your independence?

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