Therapy, truth, and freedom

Therapy, truth, and freedom November 8, 2018

I’ve done in a lot of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). For a while, I received it myself, and now, I provide CBT to kids who have experienced trauma. And it’s taught me this: the human person was made for truth.

That’s not just a metaphysical platitude. Mental illness is rooted in distortions of the truth. Therapy –CBT in particular – helps the client eliminate those distortions. Some people call it “fighting your brain,” but that’s too Cartesian for my comfort. I call it “building circuits for truth.”

The spiral of disordered thinking

Let’s start with a crash course in psychology.

Thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are intertwined. Thoughts affect how we act and feel. Feelings affect how we think and act. Behaviors affect how we think and feel.

Events trigger cycles of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. As an example, let’s say you failed an Organic Chemistry exam.

Thought: “I am not doing well in Orgo”
Feeling: worry, determination, some fear
Behavior: getting a tutor, studying hard

This cycle is helpful.

But the cycle can also be destructive.

Thought: “I am stupid and will fail out of school”
Feeling: despair, self-hatred, shame, paralyzing fear
Behavior: inability to study, self-destructive coping mechanisms, crying in the library

What makes the difference? The helpful cycle is rooted in truth, while the self-destructive one is based in falsehood. Furthermore, the destructive cycle is self-reinforcing. Maladaptive behaviors aggravate negative feelings and reinforce the underlying disordered belief. This can spiral out control, and can sometimes develop into mental illnesses like depression and anxiety.

The basis of disordered thinking

People who struggle with self-destructive cycles of feelings and behavior usually have a set of dysfunctional core beliefs about reality. In other words, disordered thinking comes from a distorted relationship with reality.

Biological causes underlie these dysfunctional core beliefs. Examples of potential causes include underdeveloped neural circuits, disorganized communication, or imbalances in the brain structures of the cognitive system. For instance, an improper relationship between the amygdala (the fear center of the brain) and the prefrontal cortex (the locus of rational thoughts) can underlie an irrational fear.

Through the thought-feeling-behavior cycle, these maladaptive neural circuits get stronger. In other words, they become consolidated and are hard to change.

How CBT breaks the cycle

CBT starves the monster of disordered thinking. It takes advantage of neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to change, to replace maladaptive neural circuits with new ones. In other words, CBT “builds circuits for truth.”

The first step is to help the client recognize false thoughts. The client is trained to be a scientist, putting her thoughts under the microscope to examine the evidence for and against the thoughts, instead of assuming that they are true. For instance, if a patient believes he is unworthy of love because he is imperfect, he might be challenge that thought by observing that he loves his friends, though they themselves are flawed.

Then, the therapist works to align the client’s core beliefs with reality through cognitive restructuring. Behavioral experiments are one particularly effective strategy. Again, the client is like a scientist. First, she makes predictions based on her core beliefs. Then, when a client acts, she observes the outcomes, and reflects on how the results should change her core beliefs.

Truth and human flourishing

The goal of CBT is to orient the client toward truth. When this happens, we can truly begin to flourish again. In my experience, CBT changed the whole triangle:

  1. Thoughts. I learned to align my thoughts with the truth of the reality beyond me.
  2. Feelings. The landscape of my interior life was transformed. Dark clouds of continual rumination were scattered. This made room for boundless joy, and built resilience in front of life’s difficulties.
  3. Behavior. I gradually stopped engaging in self-destructive behavior, bringing new life to my friendships, work, and – especially – my relationship with God.

As Jeffrey M. Schwartz writes, “We spend a considerable amount of our time engrossed in following deceptive brain messages until we begin to see them for what they are and value our true emotions and needs.” And when this change happens, we start to chase after the good. We have time and energy to truly come alive. We can pour ourselves into study, romance, faith, beauty, community, and simple joy.

Don’t get me wrong: getting rid of dysfunctional core beliefs is hard. It’s a long and slow battle to correct your neural circuits. But as Aquinas wrote:

“Augustine says… ‘It is better to limp along the way than to walk briskly off the way.’  For one who limps along the way, even though he makes just a little progress, is approaching his destination; but if one walks off the way, the faster he goes the further he gets from his destination.”

Progress can by pitifully slow. But recovery is worth it.

Christ, the origin and end of flourishing

Ultimately, we don’t recover through willpower alone. Recovery is always a grace, is always bestowed as a gift. Christ is the way, the truth and the life: He is the one to set us free. So your task is to remain open to receiving this gift. Open yourself to recovery. Open yourself to encountering the healing truth of Christ’s loving presence.

Part of that healing can be therapy. There is no shame in asking for professional help along your journey; God often heals us through doctors and therapists. Whatever it takes, seek to “build circuits for truth,” and this will set you free from disordered thinking.

Further reading recommendations

Here is an interesting review of the neural circuits underlying stress disorders.

Dr. Jeffrey M. Schwartz’s book “You Are Not Your Brain” uses excellent science, and is particularly useful for anyone struggling with unhealthy thinking.

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