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October 2022

October 15, 2022
Eileen, 53, and Jason, 58, have been married fifteen years and came to counseling to...
October 09, 2022
Sitting on the couch in my office, Jessica, 32, shares her struggle with opening up...
October 02, 2022
Think about it: when you’re in a good mood, you might cut your partner some...

September 2022

September 25, 2022
Bailey, 36, and Kevin, 40, sat on my couch for their couples counseling session and...
September 19, 2022
During a recent couples counseling session, Karen, 37, and Rob, 40, discuss their destructive pursuer-distancer...
September 11, 2022
Allyssa, 37, and John, 40, sat on the couch in my office for their first...
September 04, 2022
While it’s tempting to launch into expressing anger and to get into the attack mode...

August 2022

August 28, 2022
You will disagree with your partner, that’s a given. But it’s not arguing with him...
August 18, 2022
While all parents have faced the challenge of raising children, many single parents have had...
August 15, 2022
Most experts advise against rebound relationships because newly divorced people need time to recover from...
August 07, 2022
If you find yourself attracted to a partner who is emotionally unavailable or distant, or...

July 2022

July 31, 2022
As a therapist, many parents complain to me that there is too much conflict and...
July 24, 2022
We’ve long understood the pain and perils of relationships characterized by physical and emotional abuse....
July 16, 2022
Sitting in my office, Felicia, 35, described the bitterness and resentment she has toward Erik,...
July 09, 2022
Whether you’re a new parent or have watched your kids grow into adolescence, you are...
July 03, 2022
During a couples counseling session, Becca, 36, and David, 38, discuss their ongoing problem with...

June 2022

June 26, 2022
During a recent counseling session, Karen and Joshua, in their late thirties, spoke about their...
June 17, 2022
In my practice, I’ve worked with many couples who complain that the spark has gone...
June 12, 2022
Like many of the couples I counsel, Olivia, 38, and Jason, 40, are deeply committed...
June 05, 2022
While many couples see remarriage as an opportunity to start fresh start and a new...

May 2022

May 26, 2022
Typically, anxiety is defined as a feeling of worry, panic, or fear that can manifest...
May 21, 2022
During a recent couples counseling session, Karen, 37, and Rob, 40, discuss their destructive pursuer-distancer...
May 15, 2022
During a recent couples counseling session, Tim, 38, spoke about how overwhelmed he feels when...
May 08, 2022
By far, this is one of the most commonly asked questions my clients ask me....
May 01, 2022
While it is natural to feel hurt when a loved one has done something wrong...

April 2022

April 24, 2022
Sitting in my office, Felicia, 35, described the bitterness and resentment she has toward Erik,...
April 16, 2022
Sitting on the couch in my office, Jessica, 32, shares her struggle with opening up...
April 10, 2022
While it’s normal to go through a period of self-reflection when your relationship ends, it’s...
April 02, 2022
When Kelly, 42, sits on the couch in my office for a couples counseling session,...

March 2022

March 26, 2022
Most experts advise against rebound relationships because newly divorced people need time to recover from...
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