takeaways Danny Bryant grew up in a religious cult that emphasized moral perfection. Literature played a significant role in shaping Danny's worldview and personal growth. Leaving the cult was a long and complex process for Danny, taking over a decade. Danny's experience in the cult led him to question many beliefs and seek a more inclusive faith. The trauma from his upbringing continues to influence Danny's life and work as a pastor. Danny aims to prove that pastoral care can be done with integrity and love, not control and shame. He draws parallels between cult mentality and systemic issues like whiteness and social justice. Danny believes that understanding whiteness is crucial for addressing social injustices. He emphasizes the importance of being in touch with our bodily existence and emotions. Danny's journey reflects a broader narrative of healing and transformation in the face of trauma. The richness of truth can be overwhelming and transformative. Assimilation into dominant cultures often leads to heartbreak and division. Communities built on insularity struggle to foster genuine love and connection. Hospice spirituality offers a way to acknowledge the need for change and growth. Insecure possessiveness can lead to addiction to ideas rather than genuine belonging. The anger in white communities often misplaces blame on marginalized groups. The Roman centurion's faith exemplifies dignity and humility in seeking help. We must say no to death and exclusion while affirming human dignity. The addiction to shame can distort our understanding of love and worth. True community requires letting go of control and embracing uncertainty. Links:? Web: www.spaciouslistening.com Book: https://tinyurl.com/y7bw9fwb Sponsors Quoir Square 2 Class: https://www.bk2sq1.com/square-2-next-steps-into-reconstruction (Promo code: Liminal for 10% off) Kineo Center: https://www.thekineocenter.com/cohort (mention "Liminal" in Application for $100 off) Monk Manual: https://monkmanual.com/LIMINAL (10% off all merchandise) Connect Find us on the web: https://liminalliving.simplecast.com/ Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/liminalliving Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCseqDsKpQv2r7AbFfrWF0ow Follow us on Patheos: patheos.com/editorial/podcasts/liminal-living