Today Preston is talking with his friend "Tom". Tom is a closeted gay pastor. He is the pastor of a strong church and has been married for forty years and has quite a few grandchildren. Tom thought that eventually, given enough time, he would change; if he had a girlfriend, he would change; that if he got married, he would change. However, Tom is still gay in his sexual orientation but has learned that his sexuality is not where his identity is found.   Support Preston Support Preston by going to Connect with Preston Follow him on Twitter @PrestonSprinkle Check out his website If you enjoy the podcast, be sure to leave a review.