This is an uncomfortably accurate example of how we should not do the new evangelization.
It doesn’t matter what denomination, Christian churches all fall into different versions of this pattern. Perhaps we should stop being so self-concious about it.After all, Jesus gives us meaning and purpose in this life and eternal life beyond that: Abundant Life. We don’t have to “sell” that. We just need to live it. A life lived for Christ is the best evangelizer of all.