Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Marriage

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Marriage August 9, 2017

AnsweringThis is one of the more confusing and strange questions asked on Debi Pearl’s message board. I think the question this woman is asking is she wants to know why she’s not married at 27 years old. What in the heck is this ‘spiritual mask’ others are telling her she has?

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.


I have been a christian since the age of Sixteen and now twenty seven years, it has been four years since i have not been in a relationship and and neither been in any type of sexual encounter but some people keep telling me that the reason why am not getting a boyfriend or even marrying is because i have a spiritual mask, whereby a guy sees me but he chooses not to come and ask me out. But the bible says that we are a new creation in Christ Jesus and a love God, can this happen to a devoted Christian?

As i am becoming emotionally frustrated because if a serve God, how can i have what people are saying.


The only answer she received was that to trust God and his timing. Not quite what I would tell her. What would you advise.

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