Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – What Kind of Girl Am I?

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – What Kind of Girl Am I? September 7, 2017

AnsweringAnother young woman becomes confused over Debi Pearl’s types of women and asks for clarification.

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad

and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

What kind of girl am I?

Is it possible to be a servant girl and to be an go-to-gal ? I love helping others and I don’t mind sitting back and letting others take the leadership. However I do have a stubborn streak, and can at times have a contentious spirit. I have to work on having a meek and quiet spirit. I do not think that I am a visionary girl. I do not think that I could marry a steady man, because I like to know what someone expects of me. I do not want to have to guess and try to figure out what someone wants. So I think that I will probably marry a command man, but I am afraid that my sometimes stubbornness and be contentious will get me in trouble with this kind of a man.

She only got one answer and it was that there are many different personality types. I’m very confused by the question. Can someone figure out what she’s really asking?

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