If anyone was keeping count on all the terrible things that have been exposed since Lori Alexander’s merciless and unloving post on tattooless virgins they’d be shocked. Or perhaps not. I’ve known for a very long time now that Lori Alexander of The Transformed Wife was a toxic wanna be female cultural enforcer filled with ideas that don’t line up much with any of the words of Jesus. But I was shocked at how far she will go just to try and justify what she’s written.

Recent discoveries we can glean from her posts since she contracted her viral virus:

She supports the Alt Right and people who are openly white surpremacists.
She believes while Jesus might forgive you your sins that other Christians are free to judge you and abuse you for those same sins.
It’s possible all her tales of brain tumors might not be true.
If they are true she has a tattoo.
Her world is even tinier, more miserable, and hateful than we’d imagined.
Lori thinks she is God.
Lori supports the Red Pill Men’s Rights activists over all women.
That she is definately teaching men if the numbers of mens comments on her blog are to be believed.
That women like Lori are complicit in the abuse of other women by their interactions and promptings of weak men who practice toxic masculinity.

I know I’ve missed some. Please add your own in the comments.

This all means we can no longer assume that Lori is just another harmless lunatic shouting out bad ideas into a faceless void. There is traction, there are people that cannot tell that nothing much she says is actually Christian or even moral in the first place. There are clueless ladies trying desparately to live up to the constantly shifting moving target that is Lori’s requirements for Godly womanhood.

Today Lori Alexander decided to pat herself on the back yet again for her viral post, by using the words of a self-described Russian Red Pill woman. Likely in this day and age, another paid Russian influencer.

Ask yourself, does it demoralize or tear down people? Then it’s either Lori Alexander or someone from the troll brigade.

Lori will never get that the problem is not her advising young girls to follow the words of Christ, it’s the demeaning, blaming, shaming, hateful words and ideas that she uses to try and accomplish that. She merely wants to sneer at those that live differently than her. She does not care one whit about anyone else but herself. People can mostly pick up on that, unless their boundaries are already ruined and violated by their faith communities.

Everyone does foolish things while they are young! Everyone~ Even Lori. I know I regret those platform shoes I used to wear and some of the antics in the past I was involved with in my teens and early twenties, but it’s not my place to tell young people that wearing platform shoes, playing Chinese stoplight or staying up all night giggling with your pals in a Dunkin Donuts will send them to hell, or even have anything more than a personal opinion over it even if platform shoes can wreak havoc on your ankles. Or to tell others that repenting of these things is not good enough.

She labeled her piece ‘The Entitlement Attitude of Women’ Sorry, no, having requirements for how others will treat you is not entitlement, and it’s not wrong. It is having healthy boundaries and refusing abuse from anyone.

There are days when I think that sticking some of these cultural enforcers heads into the paint shaker down at the Sherwin Williams and cranking that sucker up to 11 might be a good idea. Their scrambled brains could not possibly come up with worse, more toxic ideas than they already are.

What are healthy boundaries? Amazon has a pile of great books on the subject.

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