Lori Alexander of The Transformed Wife has been on a real tear lately. In the last few days weβre seeing the subject of aging gracefully in her chat room and various social media accounts. Lori claims you have to accept the wrinkles and gray hair.
I see nothing wrong with aging. Itβs natural, we all go through it, but itβs really another of those matters of personal choice that you see not much guidance of in the Bible beyond silver crowns. You do you! Whatever makes you happy that you can afford.
Lori says that too, sort ofβ¦
But, Lori colors her hair, and very poorly I might add. Once you reach a certain age you need to go down from your original hair color to a lighter shade, invest in a good daily moisturizer for your hair, go at least a few times to a professional colorist for advice on the right shade and learning how she or he does it. As we age regular trims and moisture in your hair is essential as it dries out the older you get.
Itβs also useful to take your makeup down to a few lighter shades and invest in a good facial moisturizer as well. No more dramatic reds, purples or bronzes, older women look less old sticking to a lighter palette. There, my advice even if I donβt color my hair because of my asthma cannot take the fumes of the products.Β Do what makes you happy and fits your life style, but do it to the best that you can so you donβt look like a clown with dead hair. Organic coconut oil is my personal go-to product.
There it is, what Lori usually says about women, stay skinny and youthful, no matter what you have to do. Do you think she ever realizes how contradictory she is so many times in her βadviceβ?
A man chimes into this discussion on looks saying this:
I hate it, but I almost feel sorry for Lori here. Many of the long married couples I know, including my husband and I, still compliment each other on their looks, and are loving with each other. Sheβs really not experiencing anything like a healthy marriage if sheβs not getting those affirmations of attraction and attractiveness from Ken. Just the other day my husband told me how beautiful I am to him, gray hair in an askew pony tail, no makeup, old tank top, and wrinkled skirt. I laughed and told him even with all those above things? Thatβs still more normal than what Lori is saying here.
No wonder Lori posts about wanting to smack ladies on the bottom with a paddle who are wearing thongs during her beach walks with Ken!
In the last eight years Iβve written No Longer Quivering and quoted Quiverfull mean girl and attempted social media social influencer Lori Alexander thereβs been whispers that her husband committed infidelity. Itβs the rumor that will not go away. Iβve never seen evidence to that effect. Iβve never seen Ken admit it.
But yesterday someone shared with me the source of the rumor. Judge for yourself. Perhaps this is what all this βBe attractiveβ nonsense of hers is all about:
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