Growing Old, Marital Attraction, and That Ken Alexander Cheating Rumor?

Growing Old, Marital Attraction, and That Ken Alexander Cheating Rumor? January 9, 2020

Find a man that looks at you like Tormund Giantsbane looks at Brienne of Tarth in β€œGame of Thrones”, not someone that merely tolerates you.

Lori Alexander of The Transformed Wife has been on a real tear lately. In the last few days we’re seeing the subject of aging gracefully in her chat room and various social media accounts. Lori claims you have to accept the wrinkles and gray hair.

I see nothing wrong with aging. It’s natural, we all go through it, but it’s really another of those matters of personal choice that you see not much guidance of in the Bible beyond silver crowns. You do you! Whatever makes you happy that you can afford.

Lori says that too, sort of…

But, Lori colors her hair, and very poorly I might add. Once you reach a certain age you need to go down from your original hair color to a lighter shade, invest in a good daily moisturizer for your hair, go at least a few times to a professional colorist for advice on the right shade and learning how she or he does it. As we age regular trims and moisture in your hair is essential as it dries out the older you get.

It’s also useful to take your makeup down to a few lighter shades and invest in a good facial moisturizer as well. No more dramatic reds, purples or bronzes, older women look less old sticking to a lighter palette. There, my advice even if I don’t color my hair because of my asthma cannot take the fumes of the products.Β  Do what makes you happy and fits your life style, but do it to the best that you can so you don’t look like a clown with dead hair. Organic coconut oil is my personal go-to product.

There it is, what Lori usually says about women, stay skinny and youthful, no matter what you have to do. Do you think she ever realizes how contradictory she is so many times in her β€˜advice’?

A man chimes into this discussion on looks saying this:

I hate it, but I almost feel sorry for Lori here. Many of the long married couples I know, including my husband and I, still compliment each other on their looks, and are loving with each other. She’s really not experiencing anything like a healthy marriage if she’s not getting those affirmations of attraction and attractiveness from Ken. Just the other day my husband told me how beautiful I am to him, gray hair in an askew pony tail, no makeup, old tank top, and wrinkled skirt. I laughed and told him even with all those above things? That’s still more normal than what Lori is saying here.

No wonder Lori posts about wanting to smack ladies on the bottom with a paddle who are wearing thongs during her beach walks with Ken!

In the last eight years I’ve written No Longer Quivering and quoted Quiverfull mean girl and attempted social media social influencer Lori Alexander there’s been whispers that her husband committed infidelity. It’s the rumor that will not go away. I’ve never seen evidence to that effect. I’ve never seen Ken admit it.

But yesterday someone shared with me the source of the rumor. Judge for yourself. Perhaps this is what all this β€œBe attractive” nonsense of hers is all about:

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About Suzanne Titkemeyer
Suzanne Titkemeyer went from a childhood in Louisiana to a life lived in the shadow of Washington D.C. For many years she worked in the field of social work, from national licensure to working hands on in a children's residential treatment center. Suzanne has been involved with helping the plights of women and children' in religious bondage. She is a ordained Stephen's Minister with many years of counseling experience. Now she's retired to be a full time beach bum in Tamarindo, Costa Rica with the monkeys and iguanas. She is also a thalassophile. She also left behind years in a Quiverfull church and loves to chronicle the worst abuses of that particular theology. She has been happily married to her best friend for the last 33 years. You can read more about the author here.

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