Marriage Declines

From NPR:

The share of all U.S. adults who are married has dropped to a record low 51 percent, according to a new report. If the trend continues, the institution will soon lose its majority status in American life.

The report being released Wednesday by the Pew Research Center finds new marriages dropped a sharp 5 percent last year, which is very likely related to the bad economy. Pew senior writer D’Vera Cohn says it fits with a larger trend.

“The most dramatic statistics to me are when you look at the share of younger adults who are married now compared with in the past. That’s really been where you’ve seen the big decline,” Cohn says.

Half a century ago, nearly 60 percent of 18- to 29-year-olds were married. Today, it’s just 20 percent. But the Pew report finds fewer married people across all age groups.

In their place: more singles, single parents, couples living together — many having children without marrying. In fact, some 40 percent of all U.S. births are now to unmarried mothers. But the driving force in the dropping marriage rate? People who do tie the knot are waiting longer than ever.

The Pew report finds the median age when people finally walk down the aisle is at an all-time high — 26 for women and nearly 29 for men. And it’s higher still for the college educated.

Jim Wallis, Fox News, and Christmas

From SoJo, and I agree with Jim Wallis that Fox News’ “defense” of Christmas goes not much deeper than the protection of businesses to use traditional Christian Christmas greetings. Christmas celebrates the humiliation of God in becoming one of us, “who became poor for us so that we might become rich in him,” and our entrance into that gospeling act of Jesus for us.

Last year, Americans spent $450 billion on Christmas. Clean water for the whole world, including every poor person on the planet, would cost about $20 billion. Let’s just call that what it is: A material blasphemy of the Christmas season.

The culture war over Christmas is a battle we ought to ignore and instead wage the war of God’s love, peace, reconciliation, and justice in this world. We do that by announcing the gospel and summoning others to embrace that gospel.

Jim Wallis:

“Each Advent in recent years, around the time when those prefab, do-it-yourself gingerbread house kits appear on supermarket shelves, Fox News launches its (allegedly) defensive campaign commonly known as the “War on Christmas.” Fox News’ “war” is designed to criticize the “secularization” of our culture wrought by atheists, agnostics, liberals, leftists, progressives, and separation of church and state zealots— i.e. Democrats. This irreligious coalition force is allegedly waging a strategic offensive on Christmas, trying to banish the sacred symbols of the season, denying our religious heritage, and even undermining the spiritual rubrics upon which our great nation is built.

Fox News’ usual targets include shopping malls and stores that replace their “Merry Christmas” greetings with “Happy Holidays,” and state governments that no longer call their official “Christmas” trees by their rightful name, or municipalities that ban any depictions of, or references to, the Christmas season in public places. Those who are attacked defend themselves, often claim that they are really religious too, and the perennial war is on. [Read more...]

Paul’s Spiritual Vision 3

Rodney Reeves’ new book, Spirituality according to Paul: Imitating the Apostle of Christ, contends that the way to beat the flesh in this life is to see ourselves as temples, temples of the living God, wherein sacrifices of ourselves are offered to God. The upside of this idea is that Reeves avoids both legalism’s reduction of self-denial to laws and rules as well as the liberty-drivers’ desire to tell us that all things are good so live it up.

But the problem is more than how to frame this stuff: the problem is the glory of God. Well, that’s not the problem; the problem is that we want that glory. We want to rob God of glory because getting glory is so dadgummed delightful — for the moment. We love it when we are the center of attention. God has made the world full of good things, and his focus is food and sex, but neither is “done” right until they are pointers to God and we use them for the good of others. In other words, food and sex are where we either act with idolatry or with sacrifice. When we use them to bring us pleasure, we gain the glory; when they are for the good of another, they bring glory to God.

Context: Reeves’ book beautifully baptizes the Christian life into the gospel of the death of Christ, the burial of Christ and the resurrection. At work in death is sacrifice, and that is why he uses the image of our being a temple where sacrifice occurs in order to comprehend how to deal with sin.

If the gospel shapes the Christian life, is the death of Jesus — or our victory — the first word? What is the solution to church problems? What is the solution to personal problems? Does “sacrifice” play an important role? Why are we tempted to beat the flesh with legalism? Or with extreme bouts of self-denial in asceticism?

So here’s the problem: we can’t capture God’s glory in our own image. Take a look at that picture of a table mountain in Cape Town — if you’ve been there and seen it, the picture never takes you far enough, and if you’ve lived it for your life a picture can never do it justice — the picture can be a sacrament or an icon but it can never be the fullness. And that’s what we do when we decide to grab the glory: we can’t get enough of it and we rob the fullness of its glory.

We turn food and sex into idols at seek glory in them — it’s clear, I hope, that Reeves is focusing on Romans 1. And he turns as well to 1 Corinthians 3. In our culture both food and sex are worshiped, and they turn us inside out into self-gratifying and ultimately self-glorifying beastly humans. [Read more...]

Justin Holcomb and the Soterian Gospel

Justin Holcomb, at Mars Hill (Seattle), recently posted on What is the gospel? and he offers an excellent example of a soterian gospel (see my King Jesus Gospel for soterian vs. apostolic or Story gospel but in essence the “soterian” gospel reframes the Bible’s narrative into one about a plan for personal salvation). I urge you to read what he says and then consider this one major criticism I have:

Everything in Holcomb’s sketch of the gospel is about our salvation, the whole Bible is read through that lens, and this leads the writer to skip from Genesis 3 to Jesus and God’s sending of his Son for our salvation. You can see this in the transition from paragraph two to paragraph three:

God made us to worship him. He was our Father, living and walking among us, giving us everything we needed to live, and yet we chose to sin against him—a cosmic act of treason punishable by death. As a result, we were separated from God, and we try to be our own gods, declaring what is right and wrong, and living life by our own standards.

Despite our pride and ignorance, Jesus, who created the world and is God, lovingly came into human history as a man. He was born of a virgin, and he lived a life without sin,  though….

This skipping of Israel’s Story is why there’s no concern in this gospel that Jesus is the Messiah/King, no concern for how God works in human history, no redemption of creation, and no new heavens and new earth. The Bible’s message is reduced to salvation, but there’s more to the Bible’s Story than that.  There’s not enough Old Testament Story in this sketch … the “according to the Scriptures” theme of the gospel statement of 1 Cor 15 (and the sermons in Acts, and the Gospels) is not given adequate grounding. [Read more...]