Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Am I Flirting or Not?

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Am I Flirting or Not? October 5, 2017

AnsweringAnother young woman being told she’s too forward and flirty for being comfortable enough with guys to talk to them like a human being.
Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem,many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Am I flirting or not?

I’m an outgoing girl, and i only grew up with guys which is why I’m very comfortable around them. When I was younger I only wanted to hang out with guys , and thankfully that changed.

But I’m still comfortable around guys and talk with them (not privately just when we are in groups) Some people see this as flirting and have given me warnings. other people say that I’m being friendly. i would appreciate your thoughts. Im a go to gal. And I don’t want to become a grabber.

No one bothered to answer this young woman. What would you tell her?

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