by Trey (Lori Alexander’s nasty little fan boy) from Lori Alexander’s The Transformed Wife – Women Withholding Sex From Their Husbands
Editor’s note: This guy is the type that thinks all women ‘owe’ him something and complain that they are not receiving the adulation, respect, or fawning from every young woman in their path. So he’s unloading on all the women in Lori’s group on all the things wrong with women in his view. His claims that it is only the men being physically and emotionally abused is laughable and sick.
Women are in so many ways different than men and are so confusing, emotional, irrational and so much trouble that without the sex drive, the vast majority of men would not give a woman the time of day. This is my personal opinion and might not be true.
So in essence, the thing that so many women despise about men is the only thing that draws them to you and gets them to marry you and provide for you and protect you in the first place! Then you take it away from them and they are forced to stay married to you because of their commitment to God? SERIOUSLY!?!?! And women are constantly complaining about how men physically and emotionally abuse them?! The vast majority of women (in our society) have never experienced physical abuse and I would contend that most of the emotional abuse they have experienced is of their own making. I will assure you that every man married to a gate-keeping or refusing wife is both physically AND emotionally abused by their wives!!!
Even if you give your husband all of the sex he wants and his physical needs are met, if you do not emotionally participate (rather just give him Duty Sex), his emotional needs are still not met and no intimacy will be created between the two of you. Women, there are no half measures here. You have to give YOURSELF COMPLETELY (physically and emotionally) to your husband for God’s blessings to be realized.
I am reminded of this guy from ‘Beauty and the Beast’. I think this is the type of reaction Trey wants from all women (and let’s be real, the men surrounding him too.) Sorry, because it is not even happening in his small controlled world of evangelical fundamentalist Christianity. Skewed views of what a man and a woman really are. Not very emotionally healthy even before the allegations of abuse.
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