by Trey (self-described Good Christian Patriarch tm) on Lori Alexander’s blog The Transformed Wife – Women Withholding Sex From Their Husbands
Editor’s note: A little birdie told me of a posting by Lori about a house on her street catching fire and her response being to grab her lotion and her makeup bag as the main things to taken when fleeing the house. I spent some time yesterday digging through the archives on her sites and was unable to find anything about a house fire that her son-in-law had to rescue her from with her lotions and makeup.
What I did find was this, something else that the little birdie said, another shaming and blaming long comment turned into a blog entry by MRA guy Trey. It’s said that many of Lori’s female followers are pretty upset right now by the fact that she’s chosen to blog out Trey’s comments since she’s supposed to be an ‘older woman’ righteously teaching ‘younger women.’
I do not blame them for taking offense at Trey’s words. They’re awful and don’t have much in common with the teachings of Christ. Why is Lori resorting to promoting the ridiculous assertions of a man that clearly hates women?
I will say this as plain as it is. With very, very few exceptions if you are a woman who calls herself Godly and thinks she is following Jesus Christ in her life but withholding sex from your husband you are living in a delusional fantasy. You are not serving Christ but Satan and Christ (if you even know Him) is severely grieved by your wretchedly SINFUL behavior. PERIOD.
You cannot even fathom the amount and depth of damage that you are doing to your husband, your marriage, your children and consequently… yourselves. This is yet another area where women are their own worst enemies! If you engage in this wretchedly sinful behavior, you are heaping tons of damage, pain and suffering on yourselves and everyone you claim to love most!
God made sex for marriage, he tells you in the Bible that you should be having it, that you should not cease from having it often except by mutual agreement and then only for a short specific time period for a specific purpose. God made sex to be enjoyed by men and women equally. “Most” men are driven to it by their hormones. “Most” women must often (out of obedience) choose to do it.
And speaking of hormones ladies, if it were not for testosterone and the sex drive that God put into men making them attracted to women for sex, I personally don’t believe that the vast majority of men would choose to have anything to do with women at all.
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