Lori Alexander Goes Gay Bashing

Lori Alexander Goes Gay Bashing June 24, 2019

Lori Alexander of The Transformed Wife and her assorted bashing of people, ideas and things this week. Never even looked at her blog this week because the most toxic stuff is going down on her Facebook page and that roach nest of a chat room.

It’s a roach nest because roaches multiply away from the light, in hidden places, before crawling out to spread their diseases. Just like the homophobic, racist, sexist people that follow Ms. Alexander.

Lori Alexander had this to say during Pride Month:

and this:

So June being Pride month is somehow a conspiracy for stores to sell more items? **Gasp!!** I never knew. A month of rainbows.

It’s not so that commerce can make more money, not at all. It morphed into an entire month years ago to include the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots.  Even Trump acknowledged Pride Month in one of his ubiquitous tweets.

Here’s the thing. Lori and pals behave like Pride is somehow inflicting damage on them, when clearly it is not even slightly impactful on their lives. I would like them to prove to us how it is harming them, in real and practical ways, not some made up blathering about based on their flawed interpretations of a bronze age book that’s been translated hundreds of times.

She does not understand that Pride merely seeks to allow people self-affirmation, imbues them with dignity and it’s the same dignity we all enjoy as humans, increase visibility and community unity. The goal is celebration and acceptance as humans, not pushing some radical sexual agenda down the throats of Lori et al.

The nerve of a woman who calls for child beating throwing shade at parents bringing their children to Pride events is rather disgusting. She beat her children, talking once of a beating that went on over the course of hours, with an implement. This is not someone that values children, childhood or ever exhibits any sort of love.

Other vile topics in Lori’s chatroom this week? How depression can be cured and addictions ended just by turning to Christ. Lori did her usual thing and deleted anyone who posted helpline numbers and genuine information on the struggles of those depressed or wrestling with addictions.

How do you get to be so cold and unfeeling that you only want your own echo chamber? You cannot feel understanding, sympathy or compassion for depressed people, or addicts. You sneer at those different than you and call them names. Would Christ do that?

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  • Jennifer

    “Lori did her usual thing and deleted anyone who posted helpline numbers and genuine information”.

    That right there shows you she’s not really interested in helping anyone. Stupid, stupid pretty woman.

  • Mimc

    It’s really the worst thing about her blog.

  • bekabot

    The world was flooded mostly due to homosexuality.

    Most of Lori’s kind of people (the ones I’ve talked to anyway) say the world was flooded due to humans having sex with angels and vice versa, though I suppose you fit both phenomena in under the same umbrella and say the world was flooded because people kept choosing the wrong kind(s) of partners. Most of the time, Lori’s tribe ties homosexuality in with Sodom and Gomorrah, not the Flood, so maybe she has the two episodes confused. Could be.

  • Nea

    Helplines tend to give actual help and not sneeringly tell people to Jesus harder according to their pet rules, so you can see Lori’s problem right there.

  • Nea

    Lori and pals behave like Pride is somehow inflicting damage on them

    To be fair, national attention to people Lori et al don’t want to exist shows how little power Lori et al have over society and its members, so it is inflicting damage on their ability to be all-powerful authorities.

  • therealcie

    No, Lori, shaking your fist at God would be literally shaking your fist at God. You might be able to claim that use of the rainbow as a gay pride symbol is metaphorically shaking one’s fist at God, but not literally.
    I’m kind of afraid to ask how the great flood was caused by homosexual activity. Like, they were gaying it up so much in Sodom and Gomorrah that it somehow caused a flood? I think there might be a porn about that somewhere.
    Depression can be ended by turning to Christ? Sorry, Lori, that’s not how it works. I used to be a devout Catholic. My depression was still terrible. In fact, it might have improved somewhat since I became a devout agnostic, seeing as I no longer have the worry that I’m letting God down because I keep letting that stinkin’ thinkin’ creep back in by not being faithful enough or some such toxic rubbish as that.

  • Delta

    You know, Ms. Alexander, as a former educator you should really know better than to misuse “literally” like that.

    Am I literally shaking my fist at Lori’s God? No. Am I figuratively shaking my fist at Lori’s God? Maybe.

  • Nightshade

    ‘So June being Pride month is somehow a conspiracy for stores to sell more items?’ I don’t think it is, but so what if stores sell more Pride related items? We have Christmas in July sales, by the same thought process that’s a conspiracy too, but I don’t see these people complaining about that.

  • Delta

    My CCD (Catholic sunday school, essentially) teachers growing up insisted that the commercialization of Christmas was an atheist conspiracy to erase Jesus from the picture.

    I don’t know how entitled you have to be to think extended celebration of your religion’s holidays is a conspiracy against your religion.

  • Wisdom, Justice, Love

    It’s beyond attention. It’s “society won’t allow us to be OPENLY cruel and nasty to Jewish, Irish, Italian, Asian, black, ‘illegal refugee’ LGBTQ people. And that “intolerance” is directly tied to me feeling like a good person Christian.”

    All the favors, blessings and grace from god doesn’t work without public contempt and resentment of “others”.

  • The Jack of Sandwich

    How DARE homosexuals turn God’s beautiful threat (“I took you guys out once. I’ll do it again. Just not with water”) into a symbol of love and acceptance?

  • The Jack of Sandwich

    I’d literally shake my fist at Lori’s God, but I don’t know which direction to look.

  • Wisdom, Justice, Love

    It’s a strawman.
    If these stores are trying to “sell more goods” (read, appeal to a group we live to shun) then they aren’t “catering” to our Christian beliefs. Expect the boycott-these-Happy-Holidays-stores initiative. Remember, it’s not a war on Christmas as much as it is a war on Christians. And anyone not catering to jesus is declaring war. /s

    Christians think it will be noble and virtuous to die on that hill. They would have thought the same thing 50 – 60 years ago. If anyone doesn’t know how this will go, look at white Christian leaders statements about MLK/Civil Rights between today and 60 years ago. Notice them trying to pretend they always supported CR. Don’t look now fellas, but there’s WAY more (video) recording devices in public today than there was then. It’ll be THAT much harder to run from your public statements.

  • Friend

    The world was flooded mostly due to h0m0s3xuality. —Lori Alexander

    Obviously it didn’t take, since the Flood narrative is in Genesis chapters 3-6, and Sod0m and Gom0rrah don’t show up till Genesis 14-18.

    Disclaimers: In all my years in Calvi Fundy Penteco Charismo whatever, I never heard that the Flood had anything to do with h0mos3xuality. Also I’m not convinced that the destruction of Sod0m and Gom0rrah was over this issue.

  • Chakat Firepaw

    “Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of
    bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither
    did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.”
    — Ezekiel 16:49

  • Lisa Cybergirl

    I am figuratively shaking my fist at Lori. Not in any particular direction, mind you, because I don’t care enough to locate her.

  • Chakat Firepaw

    Seriously Patheos? The filter is triggering on a _Bible verse_‽

    (Ezekiel 16:49 if it never shows up.)

  • persephone

    It’s hard to find mythical beings

  • Friend

    It’s the word “sOdOm.” The filter doesn’t care whether you are using it to inform, insult, quote somebody else, spam, whatever. I trip over this all the time.

    But yes, I do accept the interpretation that the sin of the place was extreme selfishness, not s3x of any forbidden kind. Here is the verse… please do come back with your further insights

    This was the guilt of your sister S0d0m: she and her daughters had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy.

  • Ingeborg Nordén

    Not even a verse that non-Christians typically use to troll the “Adam & Eve, not Adam & Steve” crowd. The auto-mod filter is getting less and less reasonable by the day.

  • Friend

    I don’t think the filter has been changed since implementation a couple of weeks ago.

  • Friend


  • Suzanne Harper Titkemeyer

    They have said they have tried to update it and been unsuccessful. What that means I do not know. I have been promised a fix but am not seeing anything.

  • Saraquill

    I doubt a hippy who wore skirts and hung out with his favorite guy pals, one of who is asexual-coded, has anything against queer people.

  • Can I literally give god the finger? Just asking for a friend.

  • Ann Kah

    That would be “at Lori’s figurative god”.

  • Martin Penwald

    So, after the flood which delivered us from the homoseskuals, only 8 people were alive, imposing inc​est to regrow the population.

  • AFo

    I don’t know what version of Genesis Lori is reading, but I recall the last thing before God decided to flood the earth being the “sons of God” marrying and having children with the “daughters of men.” According to my research, this was analogous to the gods of old (Zeus et. al) reproducing with mortal women and creating demigod children, which obviously would be a bit problematic for a religion prophesizing that one specially chosen “son of God” was coming to save the world. Then again, this is Lori, who forces the Bible to say what she wants to justify being the worst.

  • Michael Neville

    Here is a spreadsheet listing all 1089 Patheos Naughty Words™. [LINK]

    Besides various words and phrases for sexual intercourse, excretory functions, gender orientation and the like, there’s some everyday, non-salacious words like f‍at, I‍slam, b‍eer and kil‍l on the list. Incidentally, one way to get around the Naughty Words™ is to put &ampzwj; in the middle of the word. I leave as an exercise for the student how I was able to show an HTML command without it become HTML.

  • Zetopan

    The rainbow existed on Earth for billions of years* before the ancient Hebrew’s decided that it was a personal message for them, and any Christians believing that pious and outright ludicrous fable are brain dead from the start.

    *And for the inane gawd can do anything crowd, why did your gawd have to use a flood to kill all but 8 people with a world wide flood and have the mythical Noah build a large non-seaworthy box to hold 2 to 14 animals of each “kind” to begin with.**

    **Note that the ancient Hebrews thought that plants spontaneously sprang forth from the Earth so no plants were saved aboard the mythical Noah’s big box.

  • John Pieret

    The rainbow was given as a promise that the world would never be flooded again.

    Really? God made sunlight and rain only after the flood? Wait! Doesn’t that contradict Genesis 1?

    Or maybe Lori is just too igno​rant of basic science to know what a rainbow is …

  • firebubbles310

    My SIL is pretty fundy. Went to liberty Uni and had a pastor for a dad. I thought she mellowed out some… when I went to help her after her second kid was born, yikes. She made the stupid comment about gays stealing rainbows from Christians. I was stuck in the house with her until my MiL was ready to drive the several hours home. It is amazing how they don’t realize how crazy they sound.

  • Jennifer

    Yeah, it was because the world had become populated with evil, including half-human giants that polluted the human race.

  • Jennifer

    I think it was just full of horrid hedonists who thought only of their own gratification, including sex with anyone and using someone else’s guests for it.

  • Jackie

    This article was great: I love where you say
    “The nerve of a woman who calls for child beating throwing shade at parents bringing their children to Pride events is rather disgusting. She beat her children, talking once of a beating that went on over the course of hours, with an implement. This is not someone that values children, childhood or ever exhibits any sort of love.”

    Those were EXACTLY my thoughts when I read what Lori wrote. She actually beat every one of her 4 children for 4 hours with a 12″ leather strap in order to break their “stubborn selfish will”. I believe Jesus spoke about those who harm children? Well he was speaking about people like Lori. Jesus had a lot to say about the Pharisees who “claimed” to believe in God but who did not “love their neighbour’. In other words, those who did not walk the talk.

  • Carstonio

    Of course Alexander is more concerned about ga‌ys supposedly appropriating the rainbow and less concerned about her g‌od mur‌dering millions in the Flood.

  • Suzanne Harper Titkemeyer

    Thanks for that! I got kind of overwhelmed with the new words being banned popping up every day.

  • Jackie

    Great point. I once asked a friend about the Flood: I said ‘what did the babies and the animals do to deserve this’. This was the understatement of all understatements and I thought I just might get her to think. She simply said: “He is god and he can do whatever he wants to do.
    They do not think. They are taught not to question anything because to question is to be a heretic … to lose one’s “saved” status (I presume), and to go to Hell. What I always wonder is how is do they, perhaps in some moments, question these things … then deny that they have … OR are they so brainwashed that they do not question.
    Fear is a terrible thing. Fear leads to anger .. and anger to hate.

  • Jezebel’sOlderSister

    The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. (FDR)

  • Jezebel’sOlderSister

    These fundies are so entrenched that I tried to use this argument with one (the sins of S of S&G fame) and he insisted that I was wrong. Unfortunately I didn’t have the time to look it up on my phone to prove it.

  • heleninedinburgh

    And spiders.

  • Astreja

    If a god can do whatever it wants to do, does it actually matter whether its victims are good, evil, or neutral? The moment you pull out the “might makes right” argument, any genuine morality is gone.

  • Mike Panic

    I LOVE that god is po’d about us. God punishes the innocent xtian, not the guilty. Go forth and sin heartily lfor god will punish someone else. After all, I am Gay because some woman got an abortion. So I shove being Gay down krister throats.

  • Mike Panic

    Being invisible and nonexistent does make it difficult

  • Mike Panic

    Fullness of bread? They were supposed to eat some skimpy little crackers?

  • Mike Panic

    I hop;e so. Getting tired olf this fuc‍king bull‍shit. That was chosen just to piss off the mods.

  • Mike Panic

    Their goddsy thing makes that easy.

  • Mike Panic

    Maybe they went to the next town? Like some say they did after tgat garden party?

  • se habla espol

    Lori’s gods exist only in her head. If you know where you are and where Lori is, it’s a simple matter to know in which direction to shake your fist….