Dancing cheek to cheek to cheek?


Dear John, As I read through your interview with a polyamorous woman (1 Man, 2 Women In A Polyamorous Relationship), I found myself tearing up. Because the woman you spoke with explained the whole love dynamic that I have been experiencing in my life for so long. I also appreciated her making the point that [Read More...]

You might be a dying breed of Christian if …


If any of these apply to you, you just might be a dying breed of Christian. [Read more...]

One man, one woman, one who (like God; like us) is both and more.


In the future gender identity won’t matter. Here’s a part of why. [Read more...]

Is every Christian against gay marriage necessarily a bigot?


The call of today’s anti-gay Christians is, “Stop calling us bigots, everyone! Just because we believe what the Bible says about homosexuality does not make us bigots!” So, let’s think about that. Pertinent question #1: When does the anti-gay Christian become irrefutably a bigot? Answer? The moment he or she does anything to restrict the [Read More...]

There’s no place like home–for now.


As some of you may know, I spent the last three or four days rather caught up in the fires that have been raging all over San Diego. My wife Cat and I are totally fine. Our car’s been sitting in the garage for three days, all packed up and ready to go. We live [Read More...]

Fires happening in San Diego: We may be evacuated


Hi, guys. This is a photo I snapped moments ago, from just outside my townhouse in North County San Diego. Everyone around us is packing and evacuating. We’re definitely packing and preparing to get out. I’ll keep you up as I can. Thanks for your prayers/kind thoughts. Love you guys! UPDATE: About 5:00 p.m. what [Read More...]

Tell me/us about your weather


What’s going on with the weather where you live? [Read more...]

The 10 best arguments for Donald Sterling keeping the LA Clippers


Want to defend the right of Donald Sterling to own the LA Clippers? Here are your talking points. [Read more...]

10 life lessons Jack Bauer taught me


If you haven’t watched “24,” you don’t know Jack about life. [Read more...]

The mother we never had


If your mother’s unhappiness—her pain, her dysfunction, her drama—was more precious to her than you could ever be. [Read more...]