A Christian mother on raising her gay teen


I wish this letter from the Christian mom of a gay teen could be read by everyone who thinks that being either gay or a gay ally is a sin. [Read more...]

When Christian parents of a gay teen disagree on homosexuality


The gay-affirming Christian mother of a gay teen writes to ask how I would advise her relative to her husband, who believes that being gay is a sin. [Read more...]

We’re Christians whose son-in-law has come out as transgender


Her beloved son-in-law, the father of her granddaughter, has revealed that he is transgender and will soon begin the male-to-female process. Here’s my advice to her. [Read more...]

Calling Pope Francis to Lewistown, MT


Time for a teaching moment, Pope Francis. [Read more...]

Is there a pro-LGBT equivalent to “It’s in the Bible”?


If for some reason I find it incumbent upon me to boil down into one short statement everything I know about why it’s no sin to be gay, I’m always pleased to say this: [Read more...]

How it’s been


You can’t please everyone—but you can please the right one. [Read more...]

That lovable man who abuses you


One reason some women remain in abusive relationships that no one ever talks about. [Read more...]

Challenging the evil empire of anti-gay Christians, and the resurfacing of old fundie fears


How to I deal with Christians promoting hate; how do I quell my old fundie fears? [Read more...]

Healthy self-esteem or narcissist? Here’s how to tell!


We’re all attracted to confident people. The problem lies in the two kinds of people who exude it. [Read more...]

Pastor tells mom her lesbian teen can’t be a Christian


A pastor tells a concerned mother that her gay daughter can’t be a Christian unless she repents of her homosexuality. [Read more...]