Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Don’t Know Exactly How To Say This?

Answering ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’ – Don’t Know Exactly How To Say This? May 9, 2017

AnsweringThis poor young lady is asking for advice on how you tell a hidden homosexual husband from a good Christian man looking for a help meet.

Another installment of giving better answers to the questions asked at Debi Pearl’s site message board for the book ‘Preparing To Be A Help Meet’. Many young ladies ask questions on all sorts of different subjects brought up by the book. There was just one big problem, many of the answers stray into either the outright bad and emotionally unhealthy to dangerous. Yes, typical Debi Pearl borderline abusive. Here’s what we’re going to be doing here at NLQ. Every week, once or twice a week, I’ll be posting up one of the questions from the message board and ask you, our readers, to answer that poor soul’s question in a way that is logical, rational and the best possible solution, in other words 180 degree turn from Debi and friends answers. As always  all spelling and grammar in the posting is unchanged from the original author.

Don’t know exactly how to say this

OK. here is my situation. I am divorced. my husband left me for a homosexual relationship and I know live at home with my father and mentally handicapped brother. I do want to marry again but I dont want to go through what I did again. What I guess Im trying to ask is that how do I tell if a man is just using me as a cover up and when he is looking for a helpmeet?

Ouch! That is unfortunate. Is there a real way to find out someone’s basic sexuality before marriage? Not that I know of. What advice would you give this young woman?

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