Is Self Love Just Cheating on One’s Self?

Is Self Love Just Cheating on One’s Self? August 5, 2020

A meme I made a few years ago to dispute that other meme talking of women’s vagina sizes based on how much sex they’d had.

Yesterday she who I try not to mention here posted a long blog posting on the subject of solo sexy times and pornography. Every single time she flies off into a rant about something slightly odd I have to wonder if she’s somehow ‘caught’ someone in her real life in that particular sin because her responses seem like she’s personally offended at someone.

It wasn’t until I looked at her Facebook page and started seeing some of the responses from readers that it dawned on me that many of them do not have much understanding of self pleasure, pornography or sexy times. This one I puzzled over for hours.

Let that sink in…. take all the time you need to work out how self pleasure translates into cheating on yourself with yourself. How many people are you actually? I thought one. Does your brain hurt yet? Mine does.

Someone disputed her claims just below and she accused them of being a communist, as if sexual education and communism were somehow linked instead of being two different things!

This is one of the most astounding things to me about this arm of Evangelicalism, the complete and total lack of scientific knowledge, basic math skills, reasoning and thinking. It’s made our world much dumber.

Here’s the truly frightening thing. These are the same people most likely to homeschool their children, turning out even less educated offspring.


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About Suzanne Titkemeyer
Suzanne Titkemeyer went from a childhood in Louisiana to a life lived in the shadow of Washington D.C. For many years she worked in the field of social work, from national licensure to working hands on in a children's residential treatment center. Suzanne has been involved with helping the plights of women and children' in religious bondage. She is a ordained Stephen's Minister with many years of counseling experience. Now she's retired to be a full time beach bum in Tamarindo, Costa Rica with the monkeys and iguanas. She is also a thalassophile. She also left behind years in a Quiverfull church and loves to chronicle the worst abuses of that particular theology. She has been happily married to her best friend for the last 34 years You can read more about the author here.
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