Dear Somali Moms, Leave it to the American public school system to further corrupt amid the current academic struggles of Somali students. Wait until you find out what this system really has in store for your children. Keep your families as far away from the Left as you can. They will sexualize your children and dismantle your families. The Democratic Party of today is not what it used to be. At one time, I was loyal to the party. I... Read more
I got a sip of my own nasty medicine when a man in Walmart falsely accused me of the theft of his cell phone. If I’m truthful, it reminded me of the times I’ve falsely accused my husband without evidence. No one likes to be falsely accused. As soon as the store manager resolved the incident and restored my reputation, I couldn’t help but think about the times I’ve strained my marriage by falsely accusing my husband. False accusations can... Read more
I’m not a fan of Will Smith, Chris Rock or the Oscars, but I’ve got to admit I was taken in by the discussion about “the slap.” I mean, who wasn’t? Smith was defending his wife. A radio commentator called it “the slap heard round the world.” It certainly dominated the news cycle. If you didn’t see it, Will Smith slapped Chris Rock on stage at the Oscars. Smith smacked Rock in retaliation for a joke Rock made about his... Read more
If my husband had said “I’ll give it a shot” when the pastor asked him to keep his wedding vows, I would’ve drop kicked that bouquet and headed for the door. You probably would’ve, too. Many times I’ve acted as if I meant “I’ll try” instead of “I do.” Getting married is easy but staying married takes commitment. “I do” is a serious promise. How do you show commitment in marriage? Download “How to Be a Wife No Man... Read more
Have you ever wondered, “What are my kids learning from watching my marriage?” The answer to that question is a lot. A child’s perception of marriage will most likely be what you show them through your own marriage. I can show them a good example or a bad one. I don’t always do the best job. I was reminded of what they learn by watching my marriage one morning when my two middle kids started arguing. They rarely fight. It... Read more
I still don’t know what possessed me to sneak out of my house in the middle of the night to meet my boyfriend* when I was 16 years old. I was met with a consequence, which solidified why dads are important. My dad was the original Terminator. He was a 30-year Korean and Vietnam War vet. He and my mom ran a tight ship. He believed in discipline, and he was not afraid to use it. So sneaking out in the... Read more
I functioned like a chauffeur early in my marriage. I was constantly doing stuff to drive my husband away. Are you aware of how wives drive husbands away? Do you wonder why your husband isn’t as attentive as he used to be? If he seems more interested in fondling his PS4 controller than you, you might be putting distance between the two of you without realizing it. I’ve wasted a lot of time trying to change my husband. As a result, I... Read more
One hundred percent of marriages hit hard spots. And half of them end in divorce. If your happily-ever-after is starting to crumble, and you find yourself asking “When is divorce the right answer?” ask yourself different questions instead. When I coach women who are struggling in their marriages, I often advise them to ask themselves the same hard questions I asked myself when I thought divorce was the answer. It’s easy to look at what my husband is not doing and complain.... Read more
Do women who say they never fight with their husbands make you sick? It’s tempting to wish you had a relationship like that, too. Don’t because fighting is a sure way to gauge the health of your marriage. Let me say right up front, physical or emotional abuse are not healthy ways to fight.* Yelling, bullying, insulting and saying a bunch of stuff you don’t mean won’t resolve anything. No one likes to disagree, but couples who learn to fight... Read more
How do you deal with disappointment at Christmas? What happens when the Christmas you envision and the Christmas you actually get don’t match up? It’s hard being disappointed at Christmas. There’s nothing like getting a bad gift or no gift at all. Countless questions run through your mind. Why would he think I’d like this? Has he ever seen me wear this color? The agony of an unmet expectation. Disappointment. It hurts. How do you handle it? What do you... Read more
Ad-Free & Subscriber Log-In