Are you primed for an affair? Are you frustrated, lonely and overwhelmed? Are you looking for a better situation than the one you’re in? Do you more spend time thinking about wanting out of your marriage than you do looking for reasons to stay in? You may be primed to cheat. When you’re primed to cheat, you’re beyond thinking about it and a breath away from planning how you’d pull it off. You unknowingly may be looking for solutions outside... Read more
Do you feel like a loser because your man doesn’t “do” Valentine’s Day? What do you do when your husband doesn’t celebrate Valentines Day? I mean really, how hard is it to buy a card and scribble ‘I love you’? For some, ‘V’ Day is a great day. For others, not so much. If he sends flowers, you feel like a winner. If he doesn’t, you feel like an unloved loser. You can also feel like a loser if he... Read more
How should you apologize to your husband when you hurt his feelings? Like you really mean it. Have you ever blasted him for something only to find out you were dead wrong? You know what I’m talking about. You make an assumption about his motives or why he was late only to find out you were mistaken. I’ve been guilty of this too many times. It’s embarrassing. If you’re anything like me, you’ve had those kinds of wife-fail moments, too.... Read more
Why has my husband changed? What happened to my Prince Charming? When you first fall in love, you see your man as Prince Charming. He’s handsome, funny, has great ideas and he treats you like a princess. Then he changes. Every wife eventually realizes that underneath that Prince Charming exterior sits a mere mortal, who seems more like a toad. Why has my husband changed? The longer you’re married, the more toad-like he becomes. He’s less considerate and more selfish.... Read more
He gets on your nerves. Maybe he’s lazy, works too much or is bad with money. Or you think you might be happier with someone else. Do you find yourself pondering, “Should I get divorced?” I get it. Marriage can be a struggle. People sometimes use struggles as an excuse to divorce. Divorce may be a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You can improve your marriage. Everyone struggles at one time or another in marriage. You’re not alone. Just because... Read more
“Til death do us part” was starting to sound like a pretty long time. I was looking for ways to improve my marriage fast. We’d been married less than five years, but it felt like 105. Why? We fought about the same stuff over and over again. I wanted so badly for things to improve. Do you wonder, “How can I improve my marriage fast?” You can. Perhaps you’re in the same place I was all those years ago. You want... Read more
Do you have “psychic-wife syndrome” or PWS? If you’re among the millions of wives who think you can read minds, maybe you should think again. Mind reading is when you assume you know what your husband is thinking or feeling without him saying a word. It’s as if you can look into his mind and know his intentions without evidence or details. And if you’re like me, you usually assume the worst. Here’s what happens when you assume the worst. Early... Read more
Sometimes I assume the worst about my husband without having all the details, which never ends well. I make up my mind as to why he’s running late or why he forgot and get mad without giving him a chance to explain. It’s a huge flaw. I’ll admit. But, am I alone in this? How many times do you choose to assume the worst, causing drama and making yourself look stupid? Making assumptions has a high probability of causing conflict... Read more
Did your marriage get off to a rocky start? Mind did. So why do I share how to build a closer, more intimate relationship with your husband if my marriage started off so bad? Because I learned one of the most common beliefs about fixing a marriage is a myth. It takes two people to fix a marriage is a myth. It’s simply not true. Regardless of how my marriage started, somewhere along the way, I realized I could do... Read more
Do you argue about the same issues over and over again? Do you feel like nothing will ever change? Are you feeling hopeless, lonely and frustrated and you blame him? I felt the same way until I learned something that changed everything. Are you looking at this past year of marriage saying something’s got to change? Are you asking yourself, “How can I change myself and change my marriage?” without being a doormat or being someone I’m not? It’s possible. And I’m... Read more
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