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February 2018

February 09, 2018
Lynn and her husband, Dan, have been married for 20 years and their youngest son...
February 05, 2018
In more than a dozen years of research about how guys privately think about things...
February 02, 2018
A friend told me recently that she and her husband were heading to meet some...
February 01, 2018
Women sometimes feel like the only reason men walk away is that they are angry...

January 2018

January 25, 2018
Men, here’s the bottom line: practice studying your wife. Don’t roll your eyes whenever you...
January 23, 2018
It's easy to be skeptical, but you have to put aside your cynicism and be...
January 19, 2018
Ladies, these three toxic phrases should be at the top of the list for "What...
January 18, 2018
Most likely, hiding beneath the money behavior that is driving you nuts is a man...
January 10, 2018
Sex is not just a physical need — it’s also about emotions. Here are three...
January 08, 2018
As one final look back at 2017 (for those of us who can't believe it's...

December 2017

December 28, 2017
I’m spending Christmas break with my family in one of my favorite places: the beautiful...
December 24, 2017
I was thinking “This is so cheesy… why do I like it so much?” Why...
December 21, 2017
It’s that time of year again. Black Friday. Cyber Monday. Only this many shopping days...
December 19, 2017
Your 15-year old son begins complaining about going to church on Saturday night and doesn’t...
December 13, 2017
When you're disappointed with your spouse (no matter what the reason), try practicing these three...
December 11, 2017
Sexual harassment has always been there, in the shadowy corners of Hollywood and corporate America....
December 08, 2017
I discovered that the sources for the “70% percent of second marriages end in divorce”...

November 2017

November 29, 2017
Since you can only work on yourself, and if you want good work relationships, it...
November 21, 2017
“Let It Go” is a hard-core success strategy for giving yourself — and those around...
November 14, 2017
Assume the best of your spouse’s intentions toward you: in other words, that your spouse...
November 08, 2017
Learn what is guaranteed to elicit a smile from your partner. When tensions run high,...
November 06, 2017
In our research with men, it was clear that one of a man’s most painful...
November 02, 2017
As women’s earning power has changed over the last fifty years, so have marriage dynamics...

October 2017

October 30, 2017
It wasn’t really a thing before the title song of the hit comedy series Malcolm...
October 27, 2017
(a special guest post by Debbie Hitchcock) Last week I felt like everything I did...
October 23, 2017
There’s a couple I know who just seems to have their act together. They’re a...
October 19, 2017
As both a social researcher who has interviewed and surveyed thousands of boys and a...
October 17, 2017
Dear Shaunti, In one of your books, you say it’s important to believe the best...
October 13, 2017
Although this article is for women, I’m sure some astonished men are looking in, and...
October 11, 2017
Not that this ever happens to you. But every now and then our kids (girls and...
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