In this brief uncut message, Jason talks about the myth of safety and how to look for signs of health in our relationships and communities. Books referenced in this episode: "Being: A Journey Toward Presence and Authenticity" by Karl Forehand "Before You Lose Your Mind: Deconstructing Bad Theology in the Church" edited by Keith Giles Check out the following communities online: The Desert Sanctuary This is Not Church We'd really appreciate it if you'd take time to subscribe to this podcast and rate and review our show wherever you listen. Want to help us produce new episodes of The Messy Spirituality Podcast? Check out our Patreon page where you can get great rewards like monthly e-books and patron exclusive videos in exchange for your monthly support. Thanks so much for listening! We'll be back with a new episode next week. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Connect with the crew : You can find Lola on Facebook , Instagram , and TikTok You can find Kyle on Facebook , Instagram , and TikTok. You can find Jason on Facebook , Instagram , and Threads (because he's way too old for TikTok). Be sure to check out our Youtube channel. Also, please join the conversation over on our Messy Conversations group on FB! Thanks for listening! Please leave us a rating or review and subscribe or follow the show on your platform of choice!